Update on my mom

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    JimS
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      Hello,posted on here a couple weeks ago about my mom having something removed from her arm and her being very nervous about what it was.After talking with the kind folks on here and others,we had her calmed down and waiting for biopsy results.Well,it has been over 10 days and no word so she called the dermatologist today.They said the results would be delayed an extra day or two because the lab wants to do extra tests and stains.The lady said this was neither good nor bad.They just wanted to do extra tests.Well,needless to say,my mom is panicing worse thean ever now."Extra tests?" she told me."That cant be good."She's freaking out bad.

      Anyone heard of this?Is it common?Thoughts on what to tell my mom?Thanks,everyone.

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        Janner
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          Not uncommon.  Certain cell types show up better with stains.

            JimS
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              So this doesn’t necessarily mean its bad news?
              casagrayson
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                No, not necessarily.  My husband had two items removed and they ended up sending them to the University pathology lab.  They actually couldn't identify what they were, but they knew what they *weren't* — and they just took out a little extra as a precaution.

                casagrayson
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                  No, not necessarily.  My husband had two items removed and they ended up sending them to the University pathology lab.  They actually couldn't identify what they were, but they knew what they *weren't* — and they just took out a little extra as a precaution.

                  casagrayson
                  Participant

                    No, not necessarily.  My husband had two items removed and they ended up sending them to the University pathology lab.  They actually couldn't identify what they were, but they knew what they *weren't* — and they just took out a little extra as a precaution.

                    JimS
                    Participant
                      So this doesn’t necessarily mean its bad news?
                      JimS
                      Participant
                        So this doesn’t necessarily mean its bad news?
                      Janner
                      Participant

                        Not uncommon.  Certain cell types show up better with stains.

                        Janner
                        Participant

                          Not uncommon.  Certain cell types show up better with stains.

                          JimS
                          Participant
                            The lab said they will have the results tomorrow. Thoughts and prayers please that everything will be ok.Thanks
                            JimS
                            Participant
                              The lab said they will have the results tomorrow. Thoughts and prayers please that everything will be ok.Thanks
                              JimS
                              Participant
                                The lab said they will have the results tomorrow. Thoughts and prayers please that everything will be ok.Thanks
                                JustMeInCA
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                                  I agree that it's neither good nor bad. It happened with my friend's brother-in-law and came back as good news; it also happened with my Dad's first biopsy but came back not so good. I've wondered about you and your mom, so please keep us posted. I'll send up some prayers for you both tonight.

                                  JustMeInCA
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                                    I agree that it's neither good nor bad. It happened with my friend's brother-in-law and came back as good news; it also happened with my Dad's first biopsy but came back not so good. I've wondered about you and your mom, so please keep us posted. I'll send up some prayers for you both tonight.

                                    JustMeInCA
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                                      I agree that it's neither good nor bad. It happened with my friend's brother-in-law and came back as good news; it also happened with my Dad's first biopsy but came back not so good. I've wondered about you and your mom, so please keep us posted. I'll send up some prayers for you both tonight.

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