I too am now in the same boat you were. I would really like to know what you did or if you have done anything. I am scared to death of the surgery more than the cancer. I am really thinking about not doing anything. At least not yet. Mine is insitu also and you can not see it with your eye. Apparently it is under the skin. I'm a 51 year old female (fairly attractive) that deals with people all the time. I don't want to have the possibility of being disfigured. I don't know that i could mentally cope with the extensive flap surgery. I've lived a great life these 51 years and i know i'm going to heaven when i die so i struggling with this also. As you said also, please some advice. Thanks
