Taf and Mek stopped working, finding a way to life my Father in Law’s spirits

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    catahoula
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      My father in law is currently very sick and homebound. He has melonoma in his liver, lungs, spine, spleen, and brain. He is physically weak and his mobility is limited. About all he is up for most days is going from his bed to the couch in the living room. Even when on the couch he has to lay down, he cannot sit up for more than a few minutes at a time. Mostly he watches tv and shows little interest in anything else, also he can't really do much else. He started taking the Taf/Mek combo in May, at first it worked really well but then he found out on Monday that it has stopped working and he will be starting Ipi next Monday. This news has been hard on him and it feels like he is withdrawing even more, he has been sleeping around 16hrs a day up from 12 hrs a day before getting this news. He lives with me, my husband, and my brohter in law, the three of us are tyring to think of ways to lift his spirits and stimulate his mind. He has fought really hard over these last 7 months since the mets were found in his liver and we don't want him to give up now especially since there are people who have been on ipi for years and are now no evidence of disease. Any suggestions? Sorry it is such a long post. 

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        tschmith
        Participant

          My prayers are with him.  It's a hard road and an antidepressent might help. I wasn't eating, sleeping, or doing much of anything.  (i've had a large tumor burden too and am BRAF negativie, wild type.) I've tried a variety of treatments with varying results. The doctors at NIH (was there for a trial)  suggested I see a psychiatrist to make sure I got the best drug for my situation.  Anxiety is exhausting and a large tumor burden is too. Small tasks seem enormous! I hope Ipi works for him!  It didn't work for me but that enabled me to qualify for  the Pembro EAP, now FDA approved Keytruda.  What a difference in how I feel!  Scans soon will tell if it's working, but I sure do feel a lot better.  There really is hope…melanoma is not winning as many battles as it used to!  I get on the treadmill and with every step I feel like I'm stomping on Melanoma.  A little crazy but it feels good!

          Glad he has your caring and support.  All my best.

          Terrie

          tschmith
          Participant

            My prayers are with him.  It's a hard road and an antidepressent might help. I wasn't eating, sleeping, or doing much of anything.  (i've had a large tumor burden too and am BRAF negativie, wild type.) I've tried a variety of treatments with varying results. The doctors at NIH (was there for a trial)  suggested I see a psychiatrist to make sure I got the best drug for my situation.  Anxiety is exhausting and a large tumor burden is too. Small tasks seem enormous! I hope Ipi works for him!  It didn't work for me but that enabled me to qualify for  the Pembro EAP, now FDA approved Keytruda.  What a difference in how I feel!  Scans soon will tell if it's working, but I sure do feel a lot better.  There really is hope…melanoma is not winning as many battles as it used to!  I get on the treadmill and with every step I feel like I'm stomping on Melanoma.  A little crazy but it feels good!

            Glad he has your caring and support.  All my best.

            Terrie

            tschmith
            Participant

              My prayers are with him.  It's a hard road and an antidepressent might help. I wasn't eating, sleeping, or doing much of anything.  (i've had a large tumor burden too and am BRAF negativie, wild type.) I've tried a variety of treatments with varying results. The doctors at NIH (was there for a trial)  suggested I see a psychiatrist to make sure I got the best drug for my situation.  Anxiety is exhausting and a large tumor burden is too. Small tasks seem enormous! I hope Ipi works for him!  It didn't work for me but that enabled me to qualify for  the Pembro EAP, now FDA approved Keytruda.  What a difference in how I feel!  Scans soon will tell if it's working, but I sure do feel a lot better.  There really is hope…melanoma is not winning as many battles as it used to!  I get on the treadmill and with every step I feel like I'm stomping on Melanoma.  A little crazy but it feels good!

              Glad he has your caring and support.  All my best.

              Terrie

              Patina
              Participant

                 

                Hi,

                I'm sorry to hear about your father in-law, but he should not give up hope and neither should you.  Some medications may work for a while and a change is needed and ipi, or another drug, could be the one that works for him. It will take time to find out though.

                Is your father in-law taking Keppra or another drug for seizures because of the brain tumor?  My Mom was given a 500mg dose and she was fine, but when they bumped her up to 1000mg (500mg in AM and 500 mg at night) she slept all the time like your father in-law.  It was terrible as she had been released from the hospital where she was treated for colitis and thrush and she wouldn't eat and just wanted to sleep.  Once I told the doctor about the terrible time we had with her, and how she was acting, they changed the schedule to 1000mg to be given at night.  She was then alert in the days and the sleepiness went away.  The sleepiness could be from something else with your father in-law, but maybe it is due to the medications or its schedule…  You might check into this…

                You don't mention if he has had any other treatment, especially for the brain, if he are being seen by a melanoma specialist or if he has ever had a second opinion.  

                I would urge you to have him be seen by a radiologist and get a second opinion regarding his brain. (The 3rd opinion we sought out saved my Mom's brain and the 4th opinion we sought out started her on ipi, which seemed to be the silver bullet for the cancer she had Stage IV, with the gamma knife radiation for the brain tumors.) I think you need to find out if gamma knife radiation is a possibility for him or not. If it is, go for it.  – My Mother has brain mets and had gamma knife radiation twice for them. Gamma knife was 4 days before ipi and once a few weeks after her 3rd infusion of ipi. (3 months between #2 and #3 due to colitis.)  

                There is evidence that gamma knife treatment for brain mets followed within days by ipi or during ipi treatment work better combined than done alone.  They seem to stimulate the immune system much more together than having one treatment alone. –  My Mom seems to be one of those lucky people who may end up NED at the rate things are going for her. She did have 25 brain mets treated, but ipi has been amazing for her and it was the first drug she tried. She was very lucky. Also, no cognitive impairment. But you must find a good team to get the very best results possible. Ask how many they GKR surgeries they have done, find a institution that is very active and ask here on the forum for referrals…

                Studies:

                http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3892394/

                http://thejns.org/doi/abs/10.3171/2012.5.JNS111929

                If you are in California I highly recommend:

                      Dr. Mke Wong – USC Los Angeles – Oncologist

                      Dr. Eric Chang – USC Los Angeles – Radiologist

                      Dr. Peter Bosaberg – Angeles Clinic, Santa Monica

                If you are not in California you should find melanoma specialists with similar backgrounds or ones that treat at a melanoma center. And again ask for referrals in your area on the board and tell us more about the treatments and what has been ruled in and out, like gamma knife radiation…  Ask too what questions you should be asking doctors about his treatment.  It will help you gather information and can help you make better decisions.

                My only tip for ipi comes from experience with my Mom.  She got colitis very soon after starting it and I wish we had known that she could have taken Imodium.  Also, her colitis was in the same place (she got it twice) and they treated her for a long time before giving her a prescription to be given as an enema.   She was not thrilled with it, but it was nothing like she expected and her colitis cleared up very very fast. It was given because of where the "hot spot" was found in her stomach. 

                Hope this helps.

                Patina
                Participant

                   

                  Hi,

                  I'm sorry to hear about your father in-law, but he should not give up hope and neither should you.  Some medications may work for a while and a change is needed and ipi, or another drug, could be the one that works for him. It will take time to find out though.

                  Is your father in-law taking Keppra or another drug for seizures because of the brain tumor?  My Mom was given a 500mg dose and she was fine, but when they bumped her up to 1000mg (500mg in AM and 500 mg at night) she slept all the time like your father in-law.  It was terrible as she had been released from the hospital where she was treated for colitis and thrush and she wouldn't eat and just wanted to sleep.  Once I told the doctor about the terrible time we had with her, and how she was acting, they changed the schedule to 1000mg to be given at night.  She was then alert in the days and the sleepiness went away.  The sleepiness could be from something else with your father in-law, but maybe it is due to the medications or its schedule…  You might check into this…

                  You don't mention if he has had any other treatment, especially for the brain, if he are being seen by a melanoma specialist or if he has ever had a second opinion.  

                  I would urge you to have him be seen by a radiologist and get a second opinion regarding his brain. (The 3rd opinion we sought out saved my Mom's brain and the 4th opinion we sought out started her on ipi, which seemed to be the silver bullet for the cancer she had Stage IV, with the gamma knife radiation for the brain tumors.) I think you need to find out if gamma knife radiation is a possibility for him or not. If it is, go for it.  – My Mother has brain mets and had gamma knife radiation twice for them. Gamma knife was 4 days before ipi and once a few weeks after her 3rd infusion of ipi. (3 months between #2 and #3 due to colitis.)  

                  There is evidence that gamma knife treatment for brain mets followed within days by ipi or during ipi treatment work better combined than done alone.  They seem to stimulate the immune system much more together than having one treatment alone. –  My Mom seems to be one of those lucky people who may end up NED at the rate things are going for her. She did have 25 brain mets treated, but ipi has been amazing for her and it was the first drug she tried. She was very lucky. Also, no cognitive impairment. But you must find a good team to get the very best results possible. Ask how many they GKR surgeries they have done, find a institution that is very active and ask here on the forum for referrals…

                  Studies:

                  http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3892394/

                  http://thejns.org/doi/abs/10.3171/2012.5.JNS111929

                  If you are in California I highly recommend:

                        Dr. Mke Wong – USC Los Angeles – Oncologist

                        Dr. Eric Chang – USC Los Angeles – Radiologist

                        Dr. Peter Bosaberg – Angeles Clinic, Santa Monica

                  If you are not in California you should find melanoma specialists with similar backgrounds or ones that treat at a melanoma center. And again ask for referrals in your area on the board and tell us more about the treatments and what has been ruled in and out, like gamma knife radiation…  Ask too what questions you should be asking doctors about his treatment.  It will help you gather information and can help you make better decisions.

                  My only tip for ipi comes from experience with my Mom.  She got colitis very soon after starting it and I wish we had known that she could have taken Imodium.  Also, her colitis was in the same place (she got it twice) and they treated her for a long time before giving her a prescription to be given as an enema.   She was not thrilled with it, but it was nothing like she expected and her colitis cleared up very very fast. It was given because of where the "hot spot" was found in her stomach. 

                  Hope this helps.

                  Patina
                  Participant

                     

                    Hi,

                    I'm sorry to hear about your father in-law, but he should not give up hope and neither should you.  Some medications may work for a while and a change is needed and ipi, or another drug, could be the one that works for him. It will take time to find out though.

                    Is your father in-law taking Keppra or another drug for seizures because of the brain tumor?  My Mom was given a 500mg dose and she was fine, but when they bumped her up to 1000mg (500mg in AM and 500 mg at night) she slept all the time like your father in-law.  It was terrible as she had been released from the hospital where she was treated for colitis and thrush and she wouldn't eat and just wanted to sleep.  Once I told the doctor about the terrible time we had with her, and how she was acting, they changed the schedule to 1000mg to be given at night.  She was then alert in the days and the sleepiness went away.  The sleepiness could be from something else with your father in-law, but maybe it is due to the medications or its schedule…  You might check into this…

                    You don't mention if he has had any other treatment, especially for the brain, if he are being seen by a melanoma specialist or if he has ever had a second opinion.  

                    I would urge you to have him be seen by a radiologist and get a second opinion regarding his brain. (The 3rd opinion we sought out saved my Mom's brain and the 4th opinion we sought out started her on ipi, which seemed to be the silver bullet for the cancer she had Stage IV, with the gamma knife radiation for the brain tumors.) I think you need to find out if gamma knife radiation is a possibility for him or not. If it is, go for it.  – My Mother has brain mets and had gamma knife radiation twice for them. Gamma knife was 4 days before ipi and once a few weeks after her 3rd infusion of ipi. (3 months between #2 and #3 due to colitis.)  

                    There is evidence that gamma knife treatment for brain mets followed within days by ipi or during ipi treatment work better combined than done alone.  They seem to stimulate the immune system much more together than having one treatment alone. –  My Mom seems to be one of those lucky people who may end up NED at the rate things are going for her. She did have 25 brain mets treated, but ipi has been amazing for her and it was the first drug she tried. She was very lucky. Also, no cognitive impairment. But you must find a good team to get the very best results possible. Ask how many they GKR surgeries they have done, find a institution that is very active and ask here on the forum for referrals…

                    Studies:

                    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3892394/

                    http://thejns.org/doi/abs/10.3171/2012.5.JNS111929

                    If you are in California I highly recommend:

                          Dr. Mke Wong – USC Los Angeles – Oncologist

                          Dr. Eric Chang – USC Los Angeles – Radiologist

                          Dr. Peter Bosaberg – Angeles Clinic, Santa Monica

                    If you are not in California you should find melanoma specialists with similar backgrounds or ones that treat at a melanoma center. And again ask for referrals in your area on the board and tell us more about the treatments and what has been ruled in and out, like gamma knife radiation…  Ask too what questions you should be asking doctors about his treatment.  It will help you gather information and can help you make better decisions.

                    My only tip for ipi comes from experience with my Mom.  She got colitis very soon after starting it and I wish we had known that she could have taken Imodium.  Also, her colitis was in the same place (she got it twice) and they treated her for a long time before giving her a prescription to be given as an enema.   She was not thrilled with it, but it was nothing like she expected and her colitis cleared up very very fast. It was given because of where the "hot spot" was found in her stomach. 

                    Hope this helps.

                      catahoula
                      Participant

                        We live in Aurora,CO and he is being treated by Dr. Rene Gonzalez who is a melanoma specialist.

                        He has had some palliative radiation to treat pain in his back in April.

                        He also had a gamma knife procedure back in May which seems to be controlling the mets in his brain, they don't seem to think he needs another one right now. 

                        He has an appointment with a counselor comming up and we will ask about antidepressants,he has been taking risperdal at night but it isn't doing much for his mood.

                        My BIL is going with him to his first Ipi on Monday and he is going to ask about the fatigue since it seems to be getting worse, yesterday he slept for over 20 hrs and basically only woke for meds, water and to take his vitals. Today he is still asleep and it is after 5. I'm about to wake him up to give him his medicine and take his tempature and blood pressure and try to get him to drink a couple of ensure. 

                         

                        Thank you both for the advice and encouragement. I have also told him about stories of people on this board who have been where he is and have come back, it seemed to brighten his mood. 

                        catahoula
                        Participant

                          We live in Aurora,CO and he is being treated by Dr. Rene Gonzalez who is a melanoma specialist.

                          He has had some palliative radiation to treat pain in his back in April.

                          He also had a gamma knife procedure back in May which seems to be controlling the mets in his brain, they don't seem to think he needs another one right now. 

                          He has an appointment with a counselor comming up and we will ask about antidepressants,he has been taking risperdal at night but it isn't doing much for his mood.

                          My BIL is going with him to his first Ipi on Monday and he is going to ask about the fatigue since it seems to be getting worse, yesterday he slept for over 20 hrs and basically only woke for meds, water and to take his vitals. Today he is still asleep and it is after 5. I'm about to wake him up to give him his medicine and take his tempature and blood pressure and try to get him to drink a couple of ensure. 

                           

                          Thank you both for the advice and encouragement. I have also told him about stories of people on this board who have been where he is and have come back, it seemed to brighten his mood. 

                          catahoula
                          Participant

                            We live in Aurora,CO and he is being treated by Dr. Rene Gonzalez who is a melanoma specialist.

                            He has had some palliative radiation to treat pain in his back in April.

                            He also had a gamma knife procedure back in May which seems to be controlling the mets in his brain, they don't seem to think he needs another one right now. 

                            He has an appointment with a counselor comming up and we will ask about antidepressants,he has been taking risperdal at night but it isn't doing much for his mood.

                            My BIL is going with him to his first Ipi on Monday and he is going to ask about the fatigue since it seems to be getting worse, yesterday he slept for over 20 hrs and basically only woke for meds, water and to take his vitals. Today he is still asleep and it is after 5. I'm about to wake him up to give him his medicine and take his tempature and blood pressure and try to get him to drink a couple of ensure. 

                             

                            Thank you both for the advice and encouragement. I have also told him about stories of people on this board who have been where he is and have come back, it seemed to brighten his mood. 

                            Patina
                            Participant

                               

                              Hi,

                              If he has had gamma knife they must have him on an anti seizure medication, which typically causes sleepiness and for some extreme tiredness.  So, have your BIL ask about side effects and if things might be changed…  – Those with brain mets are more likely to have seizures and a seizures can mean brain cell death… If they don't have him on a anti-seizure medication you need to find out why and look for a another doctor to review his charts. Any patient with brain mets needs to be on an anti-seizure medication for some time after treatment. My Mom had her procedure in April and she has just been weaned off of Keppra.  If things go well she can drive in December! – She will be thrilled!

                              May I ask what do you mean by they "don’t' think he needs another one"?  I hate to tell you this, but the Neuro-Oncologist my Mom was seeing in Beverly Hills and affiliated with a major hospital said we should wait and see what would happened with the new tumors they found in April. He saw 2 then. – The next day we saw Dr. Chang and he found 5 tumors in her prefrontal cortex alone that needed treatment.  

                              Since decision making is pretty important, and that is related to the prefrontal cortex, we scheduled gamma knife treatment ASAP and they radiated 17 tumors 1 week and 1 day later. If someone is saying that they "don't seem to think" he needs further treatment AND they have noticed more tumors in follow up exams you really need a second opinion to see what they would do and why. We liked the Neuro-Oncologist, but he gave us poor advice and even the specialist who originally preformed the gamma knife procedure said as much when he found out Dr. Chang sought medical records for her treatment during an emergency consult….

                              From our experience a second or third opinion in EVERY case has led us to better outcomes and I personally will never take the opinion of just one doctor on anything similar moving forward. We had a diagnosed that MISSED 100% 3 brain tumors that I noticed as unusual when Dr. Bosaberg asked me if I saw anything in my Mom's brain, which was on a plasma screen TV….  In the second case, a radiologist ID'ed multiple brain tumors in follow up exams when he compared the original MRI with the latest MRI. That means that in between times there were issues with reporting new tumors and they just wanted to wait and see what happened as the tumors grew or grew in number. I can't imagine where we would be now. If she had 17 new brain mets in April how many could there have been 2 months later? – I shudder to think of this mistake if we had not sought a second opinion…

                              Sometimes, you need a second opinion just to make sure you know all the options and sometimes you need a second opinion to find out that something was missed…. I'm lecturing I know, but after the issues we seem to have run into I think you always need to get a second opinion regardless if its good or bad news… Just to be on the safe side…

                               

                              ecc26
                              Participant

                                Regarding brain mets and anti-seizure meds- it's not automatic to put patients with brain mets on anti-seizure medications. It's done on an individual basis considering the location and size of the mets along with the presence/type of effect- in short individual risk assesment. They often ask people not to drive, just to be safe, but it is far more common for them to be put on steroids at least initially. I've had over 20 brain mets- all of which were discovered on routine MRI checkups, and until recently, when an exceptionally large one was found, was never placed on any medication of any kind as I never had any symptoms from them and passed all neurologic exams better than many without brain mets. I've had WBR and 2 rounds of gamma knife about 6 months apart to treat them, and aside from being asked not to drive for 2-3 days post gamma knife have never been placed on anti-seizure meds. Seizure, stroke, anurism, and many other serious complications may result from brain mets- there's no denying that and many doctors may feel that it's prudent (from a legal standpoint, mostly) to cover their bases with an anti-seizure med, but it is not a hard and fast rule to do so just because something shows up on a scan.

                                In my most recent go-around with brain mets they were, again, discovered by a routinely scheduled MRI check as part of the Merk PD-1 EAP. I NEVER had any symptoms, which made everything all the more surprising that I had a 3.5 cm mass that had grown in less than 3 months with 4-5 smaller ones  hanging out in other areas of my brain. This time, given the size of the larger mass and some evidence that it was bleeding, I WAS placed on steroids- not because of any symptoms or failure of a neuro exam, just as a precaution. I had been previously training for a 5K, teaching at college level and really just living my life. Things moved very quickly after that discovery and I removed myself from my training regimen and began being more careful. The decision was made for a craniotomy for the larger lesion as it was basically to big for another gamma knife and at that point an anti-seizure medication was added as a precaution and in preparation for a surgery which caries a greater risk for things like seizures than does gamma knife. I was on the medication for about 4 days before the surgery (which was the 16th) and will continue for at least the next several weeks, mostly as a precaution as my brain heals. In about 3 weeks I'll go back for a 3rd (and boy do I hope final) gamma knife for the other smaller mets and the (ideally) collapsed/healing area where the larger tumor was. I assume I will continue anti-seizure meds at least until that time, then perhaps for another week or 2 longer, but as I have NEVER had any symptoms or seizures I do expect they will not keep me on them any longer than that until/unless I develop symptoms. I had been told to expect to be in the hospital for a week, but they sent me home after 2 days because I did not show signs of complications and was neurologically quite normal and able to perform normal activities like stairs and getting up/down without stumbling/falling or feeling dizzy. The hope (and my assumption) is that the rest of my recovery will be just as uneventful and quick, but I don't mind taking the anti-seizure meds and not driving as a precaution either. 

                                As far as side effects- I think mine do make me a little bit sleepy starting about an hour after I take them- it lasts for an hour or 2, I may doze off for a half hour or so, but otherwise I really don't notice anything. I'm being weaned off the steroids (3 more days and I'm done with those- can't wait!) which I think had more side effects than the anti-seizure meds do. The pills are large though (anti-seizure) so I do have to make sure to drink a good amount of water with them to make sure they get all the way down to my stomach.

                                Regarding other opinions, etc: it's never wrong to get multiple opinions about possibilities and brain mets are scarry (I know), but the point in getting these opinions is to gather information to help YOU decide what is best for YOU, what YOU are most comfortable and confident with- not what someone else is most comfortable and confident with. This is YOUR (or in this case your family member's) body and journey and it's important that you not feel pushed into making a decision you're not sure you're comfortable with or confident about. You don't want to have regrets- even if it takes a couple of extra days, consider the options and make the decision that really does make the most sense to you- the one you won't regret, or wish you had chosen. It's hard and I think we all have moments where we just want something. Anything. NOW! but it really is worth taking as much time as possible (which may not be much- been there as well) to weigh the options and decide the best course of action for your situation. Then you just have to commit amd move forward- never look back!

                                 

                                Best of luck to you!

                                catahoula
                                Participant

                                  A second opinion is definitely a good idea, it honestly hadn't occurred to me before because I thought being at the university he was already getting the best care in the area. It is scary to think a Dr could miss so much.

                                  He had a scan last Monday which showed no new brain mets and the ones he has are smaller now than they were in his scan in April and the same size as the ones he had in his scan in July.

                                  He isn't on any anti seizure medication, but he does take a steroid.

                                  Driving hasn't been an issue since he isn't able to sit up for long enough. 

                                   

                                   

                                  catahoula
                                  Participant

                                    A second opinion is definitely a good idea, it honestly hadn't occurred to me before because I thought being at the university he was already getting the best care in the area. It is scary to think a Dr could miss so much.

                                    He had a scan last Monday which showed no new brain mets and the ones he has are smaller now than they were in his scan in April and the same size as the ones he had in his scan in July.

                                    He isn't on any anti seizure medication, but he does take a steroid.

                                    Driving hasn't been an issue since he isn't able to sit up for long enough. 

                                     

                                     

                                    catahoula
                                    Participant

                                      A second opinion is definitely a good idea, it honestly hadn't occurred to me before because I thought being at the university he was already getting the best care in the area. It is scary to think a Dr could miss so much.

                                      He had a scan last Monday which showed no new brain mets and the ones he has are smaller now than they were in his scan in April and the same size as the ones he had in his scan in July.

                                      He isn't on any anti seizure medication, but he does take a steroid.

                                      Driving hasn't been an issue since he isn't able to sit up for long enough. 

                                       

                                       

                                      ecc26
                                      Participant

                                        Regarding brain mets and anti-seizure meds- it's not automatic to put patients with brain mets on anti-seizure medications. It's done on an individual basis considering the location and size of the mets along with the presence/type of effect- in short individual risk assesment. They often ask people not to drive, just to be safe, but it is far more common for them to be put on steroids at least initially. I've had over 20 brain mets- all of which were discovered on routine MRI checkups, and until recently, when an exceptionally large one was found, was never placed on any medication of any kind as I never had any symptoms from them and passed all neurologic exams better than many without brain mets. I've had WBR and 2 rounds of gamma knife about 6 months apart to treat them, and aside from being asked not to drive for 2-3 days post gamma knife have never been placed on anti-seizure meds. Seizure, stroke, anurism, and many other serious complications may result from brain mets- there's no denying that and many doctors may feel that it's prudent (from a legal standpoint, mostly) to cover their bases with an anti-seizure med, but it is not a hard and fast rule to do so just because something shows up on a scan.

                                        In my most recent go-around with brain mets they were, again, discovered by a routinely scheduled MRI check as part of the Merk PD-1 EAP. I NEVER had any symptoms, which made everything all the more surprising that I had a 3.5 cm mass that had grown in less than 3 months with 4-5 smaller ones  hanging out in other areas of my brain. This time, given the size of the larger mass and some evidence that it was bleeding, I WAS placed on steroids- not because of any symptoms or failure of a neuro exam, just as a precaution. I had been previously training for a 5K, teaching at college level and really just living my life. Things moved very quickly after that discovery and I removed myself from my training regimen and began being more careful. The decision was made for a craniotomy for the larger lesion as it was basically to big for another gamma knife and at that point an anti-seizure medication was added as a precaution and in preparation for a surgery which caries a greater risk for things like seizures than does gamma knife. I was on the medication for about 4 days before the surgery (which was the 16th) and will continue for at least the next several weeks, mostly as a precaution as my brain heals. In about 3 weeks I'll go back for a 3rd (and boy do I hope final) gamma knife for the other smaller mets and the (ideally) collapsed/healing area where the larger tumor was. I assume I will continue anti-seizure meds at least until that time, then perhaps for another week or 2 longer, but as I have NEVER had any symptoms or seizures I do expect they will not keep me on them any longer than that until/unless I develop symptoms. I had been told to expect to be in the hospital for a week, but they sent me home after 2 days because I did not show signs of complications and was neurologically quite normal and able to perform normal activities like stairs and getting up/down without stumbling/falling or feeling dizzy. The hope (and my assumption) is that the rest of my recovery will be just as uneventful and quick, but I don't mind taking the anti-seizure meds and not driving as a precaution either. 

                                        As far as side effects- I think mine do make me a little bit sleepy starting about an hour after I take them- it lasts for an hour or 2, I may doze off for a half hour or so, but otherwise I really don't notice anything. I'm being weaned off the steroids (3 more days and I'm done with those- can't wait!) which I think had more side effects than the anti-seizure meds do. The pills are large though (anti-seizure) so I do have to make sure to drink a good amount of water with them to make sure they get all the way down to my stomach.

                                        Regarding other opinions, etc: it's never wrong to get multiple opinions about possibilities and brain mets are scarry (I know), but the point in getting these opinions is to gather information to help YOU decide what is best for YOU, what YOU are most comfortable and confident with- not what someone else is most comfortable and confident with. This is YOUR (or in this case your family member's) body and journey and it's important that you not feel pushed into making a decision you're not sure you're comfortable with or confident about. You don't want to have regrets- even if it takes a couple of extra days, consider the options and make the decision that really does make the most sense to you- the one you won't regret, or wish you had chosen. It's hard and I think we all have moments where we just want something. Anything. NOW! but it really is worth taking as much time as possible (which may not be much- been there as well) to weigh the options and decide the best course of action for your situation. Then you just have to commit amd move forward- never look back!

                                         

                                        Best of luck to you!

                                        ecc26
                                        Participant

                                          Regarding brain mets and anti-seizure meds- it's not automatic to put patients with brain mets on anti-seizure medications. It's done on an individual basis considering the location and size of the mets along with the presence/type of effect- in short individual risk assesment. They often ask people not to drive, just to be safe, but it is far more common for them to be put on steroids at least initially. I've had over 20 brain mets- all of which were discovered on routine MRI checkups, and until recently, when an exceptionally large one was found, was never placed on any medication of any kind as I never had any symptoms from them and passed all neurologic exams better than many without brain mets. I've had WBR and 2 rounds of gamma knife about 6 months apart to treat them, and aside from being asked not to drive for 2-3 days post gamma knife have never been placed on anti-seizure meds. Seizure, stroke, anurism, and many other serious complications may result from brain mets- there's no denying that and many doctors may feel that it's prudent (from a legal standpoint, mostly) to cover their bases with an anti-seizure med, but it is not a hard and fast rule to do so just because something shows up on a scan.

                                          In my most recent go-around with brain mets they were, again, discovered by a routinely scheduled MRI check as part of the Merk PD-1 EAP. I NEVER had any symptoms, which made everything all the more surprising that I had a 3.5 cm mass that had grown in less than 3 months with 4-5 smaller ones  hanging out in other areas of my brain. This time, given the size of the larger mass and some evidence that it was bleeding, I WAS placed on steroids- not because of any symptoms or failure of a neuro exam, just as a precaution. I had been previously training for a 5K, teaching at college level and really just living my life. Things moved very quickly after that discovery and I removed myself from my training regimen and began being more careful. The decision was made for a craniotomy for the larger lesion as it was basically to big for another gamma knife and at that point an anti-seizure medication was added as a precaution and in preparation for a surgery which caries a greater risk for things like seizures than does gamma knife. I was on the medication for about 4 days before the surgery (which was the 16th) and will continue for at least the next several weeks, mostly as a precaution as my brain heals. In about 3 weeks I'll go back for a 3rd (and boy do I hope final) gamma knife for the other smaller mets and the (ideally) collapsed/healing area where the larger tumor was. I assume I will continue anti-seizure meds at least until that time, then perhaps for another week or 2 longer, but as I have NEVER had any symptoms or seizures I do expect they will not keep me on them any longer than that until/unless I develop symptoms. I had been told to expect to be in the hospital for a week, but they sent me home after 2 days because I did not show signs of complications and was neurologically quite normal and able to perform normal activities like stairs and getting up/down without stumbling/falling or feeling dizzy. The hope (and my assumption) is that the rest of my recovery will be just as uneventful and quick, but I don't mind taking the anti-seizure meds and not driving as a precaution either. 

                                          As far as side effects- I think mine do make me a little bit sleepy starting about an hour after I take them- it lasts for an hour or 2, I may doze off for a half hour or so, but otherwise I really don't notice anything. I'm being weaned off the steroids (3 more days and I'm done with those- can't wait!) which I think had more side effects than the anti-seizure meds do. The pills are large though (anti-seizure) so I do have to make sure to drink a good amount of water with them to make sure they get all the way down to my stomach.

                                          Regarding other opinions, etc: it's never wrong to get multiple opinions about possibilities and brain mets are scarry (I know), but the point in getting these opinions is to gather information to help YOU decide what is best for YOU, what YOU are most comfortable and confident with- not what someone else is most comfortable and confident with. This is YOUR (or in this case your family member's) body and journey and it's important that you not feel pushed into making a decision you're not sure you're comfortable with or confident about. You don't want to have regrets- even if it takes a couple of extra days, consider the options and make the decision that really does make the most sense to you- the one you won't regret, or wish you had chosen. It's hard and I think we all have moments where we just want something. Anything. NOW! but it really is worth taking as much time as possible (which may not be much- been there as well) to weigh the options and decide the best course of action for your situation. Then you just have to commit amd move forward- never look back!

                                           

                                          Best of luck to you!

                                          Patina
                                          Participant

                                             

                                            Hi,

                                            If he has had gamma knife they must have him on an anti seizure medication, which typically causes sleepiness and for some extreme tiredness.  So, have your BIL ask about side effects and if things might be changed…  – Those with brain mets are more likely to have seizures and a seizures can mean brain cell death… If they don't have him on a anti-seizure medication you need to find out why and look for a another doctor to review his charts. Any patient with brain mets needs to be on an anti-seizure medication for some time after treatment. My Mom had her procedure in April and she has just been weaned off of Keppra.  If things go well she can drive in December! – She will be thrilled!

                                            May I ask what do you mean by they "don’t' think he needs another one"?  I hate to tell you this, but the Neuro-Oncologist my Mom was seeing in Beverly Hills and affiliated with a major hospital said we should wait and see what would happened with the new tumors they found in April. He saw 2 then. – The next day we saw Dr. Chang and he found 5 tumors in her prefrontal cortex alone that needed treatment.  

                                            Since decision making is pretty important, and that is related to the prefrontal cortex, we scheduled gamma knife treatment ASAP and they radiated 17 tumors 1 week and 1 day later. If someone is saying that they "don't seem to think" he needs further treatment AND they have noticed more tumors in follow up exams you really need a second opinion to see what they would do and why. We liked the Neuro-Oncologist, but he gave us poor advice and even the specialist who originally preformed the gamma knife procedure said as much when he found out Dr. Chang sought medical records for her treatment during an emergency consult….

                                            From our experience a second or third opinion in EVERY case has led us to better outcomes and I personally will never take the opinion of just one doctor on anything similar moving forward. We had a diagnosed that MISSED 100% 3 brain tumors that I noticed as unusual when Dr. Bosaberg asked me if I saw anything in my Mom's brain, which was on a plasma screen TV….  In the second case, a radiologist ID'ed multiple brain tumors in follow up exams when he compared the original MRI with the latest MRI. That means that in between times there were issues with reporting new tumors and they just wanted to wait and see what happened as the tumors grew or grew in number. I can't imagine where we would be now. If she had 17 new brain mets in April how many could there have been 2 months later? – I shudder to think of this mistake if we had not sought a second opinion…

                                            Sometimes, you need a second opinion just to make sure you know all the options and sometimes you need a second opinion to find out that something was missed…. I'm lecturing I know, but after the issues we seem to have run into I think you always need to get a second opinion regardless if its good or bad news… Just to be on the safe side…

                                             

                                            Patina
                                            Participant

                                               

                                              Hi,

                                              If he has had gamma knife they must have him on an anti seizure medication, which typically causes sleepiness and for some extreme tiredness.  So, have your BIL ask about side effects and if things might be changed…  – Those with brain mets are more likely to have seizures and a seizures can mean brain cell death… If they don't have him on a anti-seizure medication you need to find out why and look for a another doctor to review his charts. Any patient with brain mets needs to be on an anti-seizure medication for some time after treatment. My Mom had her procedure in April and she has just been weaned off of Keppra.  If things go well she can drive in December! – She will be thrilled!

                                              May I ask what do you mean by they "don’t' think he needs another one"?  I hate to tell you this, but the Neuro-Oncologist my Mom was seeing in Beverly Hills and affiliated with a major hospital said we should wait and see what would happened with the new tumors they found in April. He saw 2 then. – The next day we saw Dr. Chang and he found 5 tumors in her prefrontal cortex alone that needed treatment.  

                                              Since decision making is pretty important, and that is related to the prefrontal cortex, we scheduled gamma knife treatment ASAP and they radiated 17 tumors 1 week and 1 day later. If someone is saying that they "don't seem to think" he needs further treatment AND they have noticed more tumors in follow up exams you really need a second opinion to see what they would do and why. We liked the Neuro-Oncologist, but he gave us poor advice and even the specialist who originally preformed the gamma knife procedure said as much when he found out Dr. Chang sought medical records for her treatment during an emergency consult….

                                              From our experience a second or third opinion in EVERY case has led us to better outcomes and I personally will never take the opinion of just one doctor on anything similar moving forward. We had a diagnosed that MISSED 100% 3 brain tumors that I noticed as unusual when Dr. Bosaberg asked me if I saw anything in my Mom's brain, which was on a plasma screen TV….  In the second case, a radiologist ID'ed multiple brain tumors in follow up exams when he compared the original MRI with the latest MRI. That means that in between times there were issues with reporting new tumors and they just wanted to wait and see what happened as the tumors grew or grew in number. I can't imagine where we would be now. If she had 17 new brain mets in April how many could there have been 2 months later? – I shudder to think of this mistake if we had not sought a second opinion…

                                              Sometimes, you need a second opinion just to make sure you know all the options and sometimes you need a second opinion to find out that something was missed…. I'm lecturing I know, but after the issues we seem to have run into I think you always need to get a second opinion regardless if its good or bad news… Just to be on the safe side…

                                               

                                            kalisama
                                            Participant

                                              I'm sorry to hear about your FIL's situation, and can relate on several levels.

                                              First, I know Dr. Gonzales, he treated me for my primary lesion in 1999! not a typo! My experience with him way back then was that he was often hurried, and my follow up exams literally never consisted of more than him palpating me. Never an MRI or a PET/CT. In retrospect, I now find that boggling. This being said, my current onc, now that I am stage IV, does occasionally consult with Dr. G. as a research specialist. I am seeing Dr. Robert Kantor at Red Rocks Medical Center in Golden. I am ongoingly developing brain mets and having them treated via Cyber Knife, though last treatment failed.

                                              I have been on Taf/Mek for many months however starting next week I will be beginning Ipi infusions. I am also on Keppra and have been for 1.5 years.

                                              My onc, Dr. Kantor works with my favorite doc of my team, Dr. Shuwey, a radioligy oncologist in the same building. I'm giving you these names as I have been very happy with my care team and you and i are in the same area.

                                              Fatigue: I too do little more than go from my bed to the couch. When I have the energy I try to get a project done. This may be once a week. I do my best not to compare myself to other patients. We are all on our own journey and handle things differently. I am on anti-depressants and have been since my 3 month stay in the hospital 1.5 years ago. These meds are so important to my spirit. Having been on Zelbarof, then Mek/Taf I had to extremely limit my sun exposure. That with all else definitely led to depression. I generally don't sleep all day, but i have days when I do. Additionally, pain meds add to depression. Is there anything you can do for your FIL to bring him joy? a visiting grandchild, a pet visit, a friend? When these things come my way, my spirits do lift.

                                              I hope this is of some help. I guess I'm posting mainly because I feel so much for your situation.

                                              If I can help any further with Doc contacts or anything else, please let me know.

                                              Blessings,
                                              kali

                                              kalisama
                                              Participant

                                                I'm sorry to hear about your FIL's situation, and can relate on several levels.

                                                First, I know Dr. Gonzales, he treated me for my primary lesion in 1999! not a typo! My experience with him way back then was that he was often hurried, and my follow up exams literally never consisted of more than him palpating me. Never an MRI or a PET/CT. In retrospect, I now find that boggling. This being said, my current onc, now that I am stage IV, does occasionally consult with Dr. G. as a research specialist. I am seeing Dr. Robert Kantor at Red Rocks Medical Center in Golden. I am ongoingly developing brain mets and having them treated via Cyber Knife, though last treatment failed.

                                                I have been on Taf/Mek for many months however starting next week I will be beginning Ipi infusions. I am also on Keppra and have been for 1.5 years.

                                                My onc, Dr. Kantor works with my favorite doc of my team, Dr. Shuwey, a radioligy oncologist in the same building. I'm giving you these names as I have been very happy with my care team and you and i are in the same area.

                                                Fatigue: I too do little more than go from my bed to the couch. When I have the energy I try to get a project done. This may be once a week. I do my best not to compare myself to other patients. We are all on our own journey and handle things differently. I am on anti-depressants and have been since my 3 month stay in the hospital 1.5 years ago. These meds are so important to my spirit. Having been on Zelbarof, then Mek/Taf I had to extremely limit my sun exposure. That with all else definitely led to depression. I generally don't sleep all day, but i have days when I do. Additionally, pain meds add to depression. Is there anything you can do for your FIL to bring him joy? a visiting grandchild, a pet visit, a friend? When these things come my way, my spirits do lift.

                                                I hope this is of some help. I guess I'm posting mainly because I feel so much for your situation.

                                                If I can help any further with Doc contacts or anything else, please let me know.

                                                Blessings,
                                                kali

                                                kalisama
                                                Participant

                                                  I'm sorry to hear about your FIL's situation, and can relate on several levels.

                                                  First, I know Dr. Gonzales, he treated me for my primary lesion in 1999! not a typo! My experience with him way back then was that he was often hurried, and my follow up exams literally never consisted of more than him palpating me. Never an MRI or a PET/CT. In retrospect, I now find that boggling. This being said, my current onc, now that I am stage IV, does occasionally consult with Dr. G. as a research specialist. I am seeing Dr. Robert Kantor at Red Rocks Medical Center in Golden. I am ongoingly developing brain mets and having them treated via Cyber Knife, though last treatment failed.

                                                  I have been on Taf/Mek for many months however starting next week I will be beginning Ipi infusions. I am also on Keppra and have been for 1.5 years.

                                                  My onc, Dr. Kantor works with my favorite doc of my team, Dr. Shuwey, a radioligy oncologist in the same building. I'm giving you these names as I have been very happy with my care team and you and i are in the same area.

                                                  Fatigue: I too do little more than go from my bed to the couch. When I have the energy I try to get a project done. This may be once a week. I do my best not to compare myself to other patients. We are all on our own journey and handle things differently. I am on anti-depressants and have been since my 3 month stay in the hospital 1.5 years ago. These meds are so important to my spirit. Having been on Zelbarof, then Mek/Taf I had to extremely limit my sun exposure. That with all else definitely led to depression. I generally don't sleep all day, but i have days when I do. Additionally, pain meds add to depression. Is there anything you can do for your FIL to bring him joy? a visiting grandchild, a pet visit, a friend? When these things come my way, my spirits do lift.

                                                  I hope this is of some help. I guess I'm posting mainly because I feel so much for your situation.

                                                  If I can help any further with Doc contacts or anything else, please let me know.

                                                  Blessings,
                                                  kali

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