surgery postponement

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    • February 18, 2014 at 1:17 am
    arthurjedi007
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      Just got call from Artie’s Dad, they can’t do the surgery because of the way the blood vessel is situated. He’s devastated and is terrified to move. According to Dad, the doctors gave them no hope. If he moves wrong he could become paralyzed at any time just moving at all.
      Right now, that is all I know.
      I can’t stop crying, he told me Sunday that this was his only hope of not becoming paralyzed. Hell he could sneeze and become paralyzed, that’s how precarious his situation is right now.
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        • February 18, 2014 at 2:10 am
        Jahendry12
        Participant

          I am so sorry you & your family are going through this.  My heart goes out to you.  Praying very hard for Artie. Please tell him we are thinking about him and sending positive energy.

          Julie

          (husband – stage IV)

            • February 18, 2014 at 2:31 am
            arthurjedi007
            Participant
              Thank you Julie. I’m his big Sista from college and he gave me his permission to post for him while he’s at BJC.
              • February 18, 2014 at 2:45 am
              MoCedar
              Participant

                Julie said exactly what I am thinking and feeling. Positive energy and prayers coming your way from Philadelphia.

                • February 18, 2014 at 2:45 am
                MoCedar
                Participant

                  Julie said exactly what I am thinking and feeling. Positive energy and prayers coming your way from Philadelphia.

                  • February 18, 2014 at 2:45 am
                  MoCedar
                  Participant

                    Julie said exactly what I am thinking and feeling. Positive energy and prayers coming your way from Philadelphia.

                    • February 18, 2014 at 2:31 am
                    arthurjedi007
                    Participant
                      Thank you Julie. I’m his big Sista from college and he gave me his permission to post for him while he’s at BJC.
                      • February 18, 2014 at 2:31 am
                      arthurjedi007
                      Participant
                        Thank you Julie. I’m his big Sista from college and he gave me his permission to post for him while he’s at BJC.
                      • February 18, 2014 at 2:10 am
                      Jahendry12
                      Participant

                        I am so sorry you & your family are going through this.  My heart goes out to you.  Praying very hard for Artie. Please tell him we are thinking about him and sending positive energy.

                        Julie

                        (husband – stage IV)

                        • February 18, 2014 at 2:10 am
                        Jahendry12
                        Participant

                          I am so sorry you & your family are going through this.  My heart goes out to you.  Praying very hard for Artie. Please tell him we are thinking about him and sending positive energy.

                          Julie

                          (husband – stage IV)

                          • February 18, 2014 at 3:15 am
                          POW
                          Participant

                            Oh, dear! Oh, dear! Oh, dear! It never occurred to me that Artie could run into such a complication! My heart is breaking for Artie and his whole family. I hope with all my heart that this turns out to be a temporary set back. I will pray that God will inspire Artie's doctors to think of another solution to this problem so that the vertebrae can be stabilized and Artie can regain his freedom of motion. He is still young enough and strong enough to bounce back, so ask him not to give up. Keep trying to find someone, somehow to get this fixed! My thoughts are prayers are with you all.

                            • February 18, 2014 at 3:15 am
                            POW
                            Participant

                              Oh, dear! Oh, dear! Oh, dear! It never occurred to me that Artie could run into such a complication! My heart is breaking for Artie and his whole family. I hope with all my heart that this turns out to be a temporary set back. I will pray that God will inspire Artie's doctors to think of another solution to this problem so that the vertebrae can be stabilized and Artie can regain his freedom of motion. He is still young enough and strong enough to bounce back, so ask him not to give up. Keep trying to find someone, somehow to get this fixed! My thoughts are prayers are with you all.

                              • February 18, 2014 at 3:15 am
                              POW
                              Participant

                                Oh, dear! Oh, dear! Oh, dear! It never occurred to me that Artie could run into such a complication! My heart is breaking for Artie and his whole family. I hope with all my heart that this turns out to be a temporary set back. I will pray that God will inspire Artie's doctors to think of another solution to this problem so that the vertebrae can be stabilized and Artie can regain his freedom of motion. He is still young enough and strong enough to bounce back, so ask him not to give up. Keep trying to find someone, somehow to get this fixed! My thoughts are prayers are with you all.

                                • February 18, 2014 at 11:04 am
                                Fen
                                Participant

                                  What devastating news.  I'm praying that a solution is found quickly.  Fen

                                    • February 18, 2014 at 12:21 pm
                                    Maureen038
                                    Participant

                                      I will be saying extra prayers for Artie and his family. I am hoping that another alternative will be made possible for Artie.

                                      Maureen

                                      • February 18, 2014 at 12:21 pm
                                      Maureen038
                                      Participant

                                        I will be saying extra prayers for Artie and his family. I am hoping that another alternative will be made possible for Artie.

                                        Maureen

                                        • February 18, 2014 at 12:21 pm
                                        Maureen038
                                        Participant

                                          I will be saying extra prayers for Artie and his family. I am hoping that another alternative will be made possible for Artie.

                                          Maureen

                                        • February 18, 2014 at 11:04 am
                                        Fen
                                        Participant

                                          What devastating news.  I'm praying that a solution is found quickly.  Fen

                                          • February 18, 2014 at 11:04 am
                                          Fen
                                          Participant

                                            What devastating news.  I'm praying that a solution is found quickly.  Fen

                                            • February 18, 2014 at 2:25 pm
                                            SBeattie
                                            Participant

                                              I'm praying for you Artie…I hope hope hope the surgeons are consulting others and can come up with a way to remove that T10 vertebra…we are WITH you…

                                                • February 18, 2014 at 2:40 pm
                                                tschmith
                                                Participant

                                                  Praying for you, Artie.  I've been a victim of spinal melanoma and still have some inoperable tumor remaining.  I hope somehow someway something can be done.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers…

                                                  Terrie

                                                  • February 18, 2014 at 2:40 pm
                                                  tschmith
                                                  Participant

                                                    Praying for you, Artie.  I've been a victim of spinal melanoma and still have some inoperable tumor remaining.  I hope somehow someway something can be done.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers…

                                                    Terrie

                                                    • February 18, 2014 at 2:40 pm
                                                    tschmith
                                                    Participant

                                                      Praying for you, Artie.  I've been a victim of spinal melanoma and still have some inoperable tumor remaining.  I hope somehow someway something can be done.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers…

                                                      Terrie

                                                    • February 18, 2014 at 2:25 pm
                                                    SBeattie
                                                    Participant

                                                      I'm praying for you Artie…I hope hope hope the surgeons are consulting others and can come up with a way to remove that T10 vertebra…we are WITH you…

                                                      • February 18, 2014 at 2:25 pm
                                                      SBeattie
                                                      Participant

                                                        I'm praying for you Artie…I hope hope hope the surgeons are consulting others and can come up with a way to remove that T10 vertebra…we are WITH you…

                                                        • February 18, 2014 at 3:46 pm
                                                        Tina D
                                                        Participant

                                                          I am so sorry for this news… I pray the Drs can figure a way around this. What a terrible and frightening situation to be in. So very sorry – I hope there is some encouragement just on the horizon for you all.

                                                          Tina

                                                          • February 18, 2014 at 3:46 pm
                                                          Tina D
                                                          Participant

                                                            I am so sorry for this news… I pray the Drs can figure a way around this. What a terrible and frightening situation to be in. So very sorry – I hope there is some encouragement just on the horizon for you all.

                                                            Tina

                                                            • February 18, 2014 at 3:46 pm
                                                            Tina D
                                                            Participant

                                                              I am so sorry for this news… I pray the Drs can figure a way around this. What a terrible and frightening situation to be in. So very sorry – I hope there is some encouragement just on the horizon for you all.

                                                              Tina

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