Melanoma In Situ and Anxiety

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    Ava Jean
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      Hello all, 

      I'm 34 and was a diagnosed with melanoma in situ just a couple of days ago. The dermatologist told me that it has been completely removed but scheduled me in for a WLE in four weeks' time to be doubly safe. I consider myself very fortunate to have discovered it at such an early stage but am nevertheless shocked – and very frightened – by the diagnosis. I am very anxious by nature and have an 8 month old baby who I am currently looking after while on maternity leave. This unfortunately leaves me a little bit too much time to think and dwell, which has taken me to some very dark places. 

      I was hoping someone could offer some words of wisdom/comfort that would hopefully help me put a little perspective on situation and cope a little better on a day-to-day basis.  

       

      Thank you, 

      Lisa

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        JC
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          In Situ means the melanoma is totally confined to the epidermis and therefore has no depth. 

          Melanoma in situ has an extremely high survival rate.  After WLE, watch the scar area for any pigment regrowth, watch your other moles for change, and practice sun safety.

          An in situ melanoma is less serious compared to other melanoma lesions.  The long term prognosis for you is extremely good.  However, it is understandable when newly diagnosed that your shock and fear factors are high. 

          JC
          Participant

            In Situ means the melanoma is totally confined to the epidermis and therefore has no depth. 

            Melanoma in situ has an extremely high survival rate.  After WLE, watch the scar area for any pigment regrowth, watch your other moles for change, and practice sun safety.

            An in situ melanoma is less serious compared to other melanoma lesions.  The long term prognosis for you is extremely good.  However, it is understandable when newly diagnosed that your shock and fear factors are high. 

            JC
            Participant

              In Situ means the melanoma is totally confined to the epidermis and therefore has no depth. 

              Melanoma in situ has an extremely high survival rate.  After WLE, watch the scar area for any pigment regrowth, watch your other moles for change, and practice sun safety.

              An in situ melanoma is less serious compared to other melanoma lesions.  The long term prognosis for you is extremely good.  However, it is understandable when newly diagnosed that your shock and fear factors are high. 

              Janner
              Participant

                Stay of the internet and stop searching.  It will only add to your anxiety.  It's easy to project someone elses situation on yourself, and that just isn't realistic.  Everyone is unique and what happens to one has nothing to do with you.  Your prognosis is excellent!  The first year is the hardest – getting past the shock.  But it will get easier with more time.

                Janner

                Stage 1B since 1992, 3 MM primaries.

                Janner
                Participant

                  Stay of the internet and stop searching.  It will only add to your anxiety.  It's easy to project someone elses situation on yourself, and that just isn't realistic.  Everyone is unique and what happens to one has nothing to do with you.  Your prognosis is excellent!  The first year is the hardest – getting past the shock.  But it will get easier with more time.

                  Janner

                  Stage 1B since 1992, 3 MM primaries.

                  Janner
                  Participant

                    Stay of the internet and stop searching.  It will only add to your anxiety.  It's easy to project someone elses situation on yourself, and that just isn't realistic.  Everyone is unique and what happens to one has nothing to do with you.  Your prognosis is excellent!  The first year is the hardest – getting past the shock.  But it will get easier with more time.

                    Janner

                    Stage 1B since 1992, 3 MM primaries.

                    ldub
                    Participant

                      Lisa – I was diagnosed with early MIS in February 2015.  I had the same reaction as you.  I also have young children.  I did all kinds of crazy research online which only compounded my fear and anxiety.  I still have my weak moments.

                      So in the last couple of months I have had my full body exam, a WLE on my calf, a few more biopsies of moles I didn't like (derm was OK with them) and waiting for path results, so there has been a lot of anxiety, wound healing and a lot of mental healing as time has gone on.  I think about  my (former) melanoma every day, but I also try and remind myself how lucky I am to have caught it so early.  Our prognosis is excellent, it will not interfere with most of our daily activities (other than the annoyance of putting on extra sunscreen, finding a hat and sunglasses and long sleeves when you go out in the sun, etc.) and the scars will eventually fade.

                      I had a response to my initial post here (which was very similar to yours) that has stuck with me – consider this a shot across the bow, learn from it, take heed and be vigilant – but don't let this diagnosis rule your world.  If you let melanoma have control over you, it has won.  People like Janner and others on this board have been very helpful to me in providing proper perspective, so I am going to follow their advice.  Eventually you will get to that point – get your WLE, heal, go for regular skin examinations and be sun smart and enjoy your life (and your cute baby!).  You've got lots of living to do! 

                      ldub
                      Participant

                        Lisa – I was diagnosed with early MIS in February 2015.  I had the same reaction as you.  I also have young children.  I did all kinds of crazy research online which only compounded my fear and anxiety.  I still have my weak moments.

                        So in the last couple of months I have had my full body exam, a WLE on my calf, a few more biopsies of moles I didn't like (derm was OK with them) and waiting for path results, so there has been a lot of anxiety, wound healing and a lot of mental healing as time has gone on.  I think about  my (former) melanoma every day, but I also try and remind myself how lucky I am to have caught it so early.  Our prognosis is excellent, it will not interfere with most of our daily activities (other than the annoyance of putting on extra sunscreen, finding a hat and sunglasses and long sleeves when you go out in the sun, etc.) and the scars will eventually fade.

                        I had a response to my initial post here (which was very similar to yours) that has stuck with me – consider this a shot across the bow, learn from it, take heed and be vigilant – but don't let this diagnosis rule your world.  If you let melanoma have control over you, it has won.  People like Janner and others on this board have been very helpful to me in providing proper perspective, so I am going to follow their advice.  Eventually you will get to that point – get your WLE, heal, go for regular skin examinations and be sun smart and enjoy your life (and your cute baby!).  You've got lots of living to do! 

                        ldub
                        Participant

                          Lisa – I was diagnosed with early MIS in February 2015.  I had the same reaction as you.  I also have young children.  I did all kinds of crazy research online which only compounded my fear and anxiety.  I still have my weak moments.

                          So in the last couple of months I have had my full body exam, a WLE on my calf, a few more biopsies of moles I didn't like (derm was OK with them) and waiting for path results, so there has been a lot of anxiety, wound healing and a lot of mental healing as time has gone on.  I think about  my (former) melanoma every day, but I also try and remind myself how lucky I am to have caught it so early.  Our prognosis is excellent, it will not interfere with most of our daily activities (other than the annoyance of putting on extra sunscreen, finding a hat and sunglasses and long sleeves when you go out in the sun, etc.) and the scars will eventually fade.

                          I had a response to my initial post here (which was very similar to yours) that has stuck with me – consider this a shot across the bow, learn from it, take heed and be vigilant – but don't let this diagnosis rule your world.  If you let melanoma have control over you, it has won.  People like Janner and others on this board have been very helpful to me in providing proper perspective, so I am going to follow their advice.  Eventually you will get to that point – get your WLE, heal, go for regular skin examinations and be sun smart and enjoy your life (and your cute baby!).  You've got lots of living to do! 

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