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    Colleen66
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      SUNSCREEN 
       
      If I could offer you only one tip for the future,

      sunscreen would be it. 
      The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, 
      whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience 
      I will dispense this advice now.

      Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth, oh nevermind, 
      you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded. 
      But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself 
      and recall in a way you can’t grasp now, how much possibility lay before you 
      and how fabulous you really looked, 
      you are not as fat as you imagine.

      Don’t worry about the future, or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. 
      The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

      Do one thing everyday that scares you

      Sing

      Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, 
      don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours.

      Floss

      Don’t waste your time on jealousy, sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind, 
      the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself.

      Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults, 
      if you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

      Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

      Stretch

      Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your life, 
      the most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 
      what they wanted to do with their lives, 
      some of the most interesting 40 year olds I know still don’t.

      Get plenty of calcium.

      Be kind to your knees, you’ll miss them when they’re gone.

      Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll have children, maybe you won’t, 
      Maybe you’ll divorce at 40, 
      Maybe you’ll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary 
      What ever you do, don’t congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either 
      Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else’s. 
      Enjoy your body, use it every way you can, don’t be afraid of it, 
      or what other people think of it, it’s the greatest instrument you’ll ever own

      Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

      Read the directions, even if you don’t follow them.

      Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly.

      Get to know your parents, you never know when they’ll be gone for good.

      Be nice to your siblings, they are the best link to your past 
      and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

      Understand that friends come and go, but for the precious few you should hold on. 
      Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle because the older you get, 
      the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

      Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard, 
      Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

      Travel.

      Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will philander, 
      you too will get old, and when you do you’ll fantasize that when you were young 
      prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

      Respect your elders.

      Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund, 
      Maybe you have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one might run out.

      Don’t mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will look 85.

      Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who supply it. 
      Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, 
      painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth.

      But trust me on the sunscreen

      Baz Luhrmann 

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        POW
        Participant

          A wonderfully wise and humorous essay. Thank you for sharing it. You brightened my day.

          By the way, since I'm a stickler for attributions, according to Wikipedia: "Wear Sunscreen or Sunscreen are the common names of an article titled "Advice, like youth, probably just wasted on the young" written by Mary Schmich and published in the Chicago Tribune as a column in 1997" Baz Luhrmann created a song based on the essay in 1998. 

          POW
          Participant

            A wonderfully wise and humorous essay. Thank you for sharing it. You brightened my day.

            By the way, since I'm a stickler for attributions, according to Wikipedia: "Wear Sunscreen or Sunscreen are the common names of an article titled "Advice, like youth, probably just wasted on the young" written by Mary Schmich and published in the Chicago Tribune as a column in 1997" Baz Luhrmann created a song based on the essay in 1998. 

              Colleen66
              Participant

                Thank you for being a stickler.  I tend to forget about things like that.  You can also listen to him speak it, early rapping?  

                Things like this keeps my focus in check, words to live by.

                Colleen 

                Colleen66
                Participant

                  Thank you for being a stickler.  I tend to forget about things like that.  You can also listen to him speak it, early rapping?  

                  Things like this keeps my focus in check, words to live by.

                  Colleen 

                  NYKaren
                  Participant
                    And here I thought someone was seeking SPF advice.
                    I have exactly those feelings when looking at old pictures. Youth is indeed wasted on the young.
                    A real thought- provoker in many ways.
                    Thanks for posting, Colleen
                    Karen
                    NYKaren
                    Participant
                      And here I thought someone was seeking SPF advice.
                      I have exactly those feelings when looking at old pictures. Youth is indeed wasted on the young.
                      A real thought- provoker in many ways.
                      Thanks for posting, Colleen
                      Karen
                      NYKaren
                      Participant
                        And here I thought someone was seeking SPF advice.
                        I have exactly those feelings when looking at old pictures. Youth is indeed wasted on the young.
                        A real thought- provoker in many ways.
                        Thanks for posting, Colleen
                        Karen
                        Colleen66
                        Participant

                          Thank you for being a stickler.  I tend to forget about things like that.  You can also listen to him speak it, early rapping?  

                          Things like this keeps my focus in check, words to live by.

                          Colleen 

                        POW
                        Participant

                          A wonderfully wise and humorous essay. Thank you for sharing it. You brightened my day.

                          By the way, since I'm a stickler for attributions, according to Wikipedia: "Wear Sunscreen or Sunscreen are the common names of an article titled "Advice, like youth, probably just wasted on the young" written by Mary Schmich and published in the Chicago Tribune as a column in 1997" Baz Luhrmann created a song based on the essay in 1998. 

                          Gene_S
                          Participant

                            RE:  If I could offer you only one tip for the future,sunscreen would be it. 
                            The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists,

                            ——————-  my question for you ————————-

                            Would you please post a link as to where I can find some proof

                            from these scientists?

                            Thanks,

                            Gene

                            Gene_S
                            Participant

                              RE:  If I could offer you only one tip for the future,sunscreen would be it. 
                              The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists,

                              ——————-  my question for you ————————-

                              Would you please post a link as to where I can find some proof

                              from these scientists?

                              Thanks,

                              Gene

                                Colleen66
                                Participant

                                  Ummmmm.  I just posted the essay as I loved Baz Luhrmann putting it to music.  POW linked the sources.  I do know the author won the pulitzer prize for her work.  She was/is? At the Chicago Times.  As for scientific proof?  I have no clue.  I just really like the whole message of the essay.

                                  Colleen 

                                  Colleen66
                                  Participant

                                    Ummmmm.  I just posted the essay as I loved Baz Luhrmann putting it to music.  POW linked the sources.  I do know the author won the pulitzer prize for her work.  She was/is? At the Chicago Times.  As for scientific proof?  I have no clue.  I just really like the whole message of the essay.

                                    Colleen 

                                    POW
                                    Participant

                                      I'm with you, Colleen. I love the essay just the way it is. Poetry is poetry; science is science. 

                                      I guess I should consider myself lucky that I am able to stop and smell the roses without demanding to know their taxonomic classification! smiley

                                      POW
                                      Participant

                                        I'm with you, Colleen. I love the essay just the way it is. Poetry is poetry; science is science. 

                                        I guess I should consider myself lucky that I am able to stop and smell the roses without demanding to know their taxonomic classification! smiley

                                        POW
                                        Participant

                                          I'm with you, Colleen. I love the essay just the way it is. Poetry is poetry; science is science. 

                                          I guess I should consider myself lucky that I am able to stop and smell the roses without demanding to know their taxonomic classification! smiley

                                          Colleen66
                                          Participant

                                            Ummmmm.  I just posted the essay as I loved Baz Luhrmann putting it to music.  POW linked the sources.  I do know the author won the pulitzer prize for her work.  She was/is? At the Chicago Times.  As for scientific proof?  I have no clue.  I just really like the whole message of the essay.

                                            Colleen 

                                          Gene_S
                                          Participant

                                            RE:  If I could offer you only one tip for the future,sunscreen would be it. 
                                            The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists,

                                            ——————-  my question for you ————————-

                                            Would you please post a link as to where I can find some proof

                                            from these scientists?

                                            Thanks,

                                            Gene

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